Citizens Advice in North & West Kent

Ben’s Story: A new start

A New Beginning for Ben

Support with benefits and housing helped Ben rebuild stability after a devastating loss.

 

 

The Challenge

Ben is a young man with a learning disability who had always relied on support from his mother. After her sudden passing, he was left to manage life alone for the first time. Grieving and overwhelmed, Ben was struggling with day‑to‑day tasks and feeling increasingly anxious.

He had lived in the same home for most of his life, but now he couldn’t afford the rent. The property management company wasn’t offering any support, leaving Ben feeling abandoned and unsure where to turn.

Recognising he could not manage the situation alone, Ben came to Citizens Advice with a close relative, desperate for guidance and reassurance.

 

 

How We Helped

 

Our adviser took time to reassure Ben and create a safe, supportive environment where he felt able to talk through his worries.

✔ Reopening his PIP claim

Ben had previously been denied Personal Independence Payment (PIP) and believed he could not challenge the decision. We explained that he could reapply and helped him complete a new application.

✔ Securing financial stability

His new PIP application was successful, giving Ben the long‑term financial support he urgently needed as he adjusted to life without his mother.

✔ Finding a suitable, affordable home

We then worked closely with the property management company to ensure Ben was placed somewhere:

  • Suitable for his needs
  • Affordable based on his income
  • Secure and stable, allowing him to live independently
✔ Supporting his wellbeing

Throughout the process, we made sure Ben felt listened to, supported, and not alone as he navigated profound life changes.

The Outcome / Impact

With the right support in place, Ben now has:

  • A successful PIP award, giving him financial security for the future.
  • A new home that is both safe and affordable.
  • The confidence and stability he needs to live independently.
  • The emotional space to begin processing his grief without constant financial worry.

Ben’s extended family shared their gratitude for the care he received, saying:

“We would like to tell you how much we appreciate all your adviser’s work. She was very professional, but also dealt with Ben in a very caring, gentle manner.”

All stories have been given different names and certain details have been omitted or changed to preserve their anonymity.